Saturday, March 8, 2014

What Happens When Your Expectations Depend on Money?

                  Why do we need money? To pay our bills, to buy food, to have an education, to support our loved ones and to afford nice things. Money is what keeps society functioning to a certain extent and what motivates people to go to work every day. Clearly one must have money to live a comfortable life, but how much money is really necessary? It seems that people always want more and more money in order to be happy, but does money really give people happiness?
                  In “Great Expectations” it appears that money brings the complete opposite to the main character Pip. Before becoming wealthy, Pip may not have had the easiest life, but he definitely did not have all of the problems that he ran into once he was on his way to being a prosperous gentleman. Before moving to London, Pip may not have had money, but he had two very loving friends who were always there for him even in his worst moments. These two friends were Joe and Biddy. Joe has always cared for Pip and has always been right by his side whenever his sister felt the need to punish him for simply being born. He was there to suffer with him and he was his voice of reason when he did bad things like when he lied after returning from Miss Havisham’s.  Biddy, on the other hand, was Pip’s source of education. She accepted his request to teach him everything she knew without even questioning him or asking for anything in return. She even listened to his problems and heart troubles.
                  Pip knew that these people loved him and that they were his only real friends. So why then, may I ask, did he give up on them? The answer is simple: his need for money and a wealthier lifestyle to impress Estella drove him to neglect the ones he loved and to leave them behind while he moved on to greater things. In my opinion, Pip’s so called great expectations were set up for failure from the beginning because his motivation was an unrequited love and he was too blinded by his feelings for Estella to see that she would never be able to love him back. It is this vain hope to gain her love that led him to push away those closest to him despite his conscience telling him that his actions were wrong. By asking Biddy to teach Joe to be more proper, he was admitting that he didn't think Joe was good enough for his new lifestyle and although he did ask Biddy for help, he did not see her as good enough either. He also neglected Joe by not taking the time to visit him and by being ashamed of his status as a blacksmith when in reality this was Pip’s intended future before Magwitch secretly intervened.
                It seems that Pip knew that he would never be able to court Estella unless he had all the qualities of a wealthy gentleman, but I wonder if maybe there was an inner part of him that wanted all these nice things just to make himself feel like part of a superior group of people. He clearly had an issue with status and was ashamed with where he came from because of Estella’s very first remarks about his hands and boots, but I wonder if maybe there was some small part of him that wanted wealth even without his love for Estella as an influence. However, it does not quite matter which drove him to neglect his friends and family because he did so anyways and I think the ending to Pip’s story was well deserved.
                We've all heard the stories and seen the movies where people wish for more money and better lives, but after realizing that in this new life they've deserted their friends and family they instantly wish to go back to normal. In the movies this is possible, but for Pip it isn't. By the time he realizes that his fortune dies along with his benefactor, it is much too late for him to go and fix things.  Luckily for him, Joe is still a true gentleman at heart and stays loyal to Pip by helping him when he is ill and by paying his debts. I think this action gives Pip hope that he can just go back to his hometown and everything will return to normal just like in our movies, but such hope was foolish.
Clearly, Charles Dickens most likely had a very dark sense of humour and enjoyed the idea of irony because Pip’s great expectations ended up, well in simple terms, not so great… I think that Pip finding Joe and Biddy on their wedding day was priceless. It might sound harsh, but I think it was exactly what he deserved because it was only after his loss of money and of Estella that he decided that Biddy would be good enough for him and he should just go back and marry her. It was as though he thought she would just fall into his arms, but instead this woman found her own love and did not pine over the neglectful Pip. In addition to this, I honestly think Pip should have seen this coming; he really did push these two together by asking Biddy to teach Joe and by neglecting them and forcing them into a common situation.
After it all this, it has become clear to me that relying on money to get yourself to higher places and to gain someone’s love is a huge mistake. Money has different influences over us all and as we saw it Pip’s situation, these influences are most likely negative ones. You’ve all seen how I feel about Pip’s story and on the influence of money so now let me know how you feel. Do you think Dickens was too harsh on Pip or that Pip got what he deserved in the end? And, do you think it is right to rely on money to get you “further up” in society? If not, what other actions could you take to make your great expectations a reality?
Works Cited:
Image 1:
Grant, Amy. “Money Spiral Image For Post”. Photograph. July 14th, 2011. gemalto . Web. March 8th, 2014. < http://blog.gemalto.com/blog/2011/07/06/there-is-no-winner-in-the-case-of-bank-vs-customer/money-spiral-image-for-post/ >.
Image 2:
“Unreturned Love”. Cartoon. n.d. Fanpop. Web. March 8th, 2014 <http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/unrequited-love/images/31051498/title/unreturned-love-fanart >.